Look at Me the Same!
This is a hard one to write. Partly because I still hold tremendous compassion and empathy for a man I loved, and also, some guilt that should not belong to me. Just the title of this blog post grips my heart with tremendous sorrow recalling that moment in time. Commitment was a serious matter to me. When I make a commitment, it is a serious matter because it is my very word. A promise made. When the relationship began I made a choice. I looked at my life as a missionary and all I had planned with that, and the relationship with this man. The road of the missionary, in my mind, was a hard one - uphill with dirt and rock, and few living plants. Conversely, the road of loving a man was by a stream, surrounded by thick green foliage, winding through a forest on level ground. I chose the latter and chose it with all my heart. I saw a man I could love. In the beginning, it was just that - love. But I also saw where I could help. I could make his life better! I could make his life easier. I ...